Kitani yang dimiliki

Have u guys ever thought at one point of our life that money and the world is not everything? Pernah kah? Memang duit atu amat penting untuk kehidupan sehari-hari..apa apa ani pun memerlukan duit..tapi bagi ku semakin umur meningkat, rasa nya duit atu hanya lah sekadar keperluan untuk hidup sehari-hari..keperluan untuk makan, minum, perjalanan. tanggungan dll...some people may think that they own everything..I always think that I own everything I need...memiliki segala galanya..tapi sebenar nya kitani yang di miliki..segala harta yang kitani miliki ada lah milik ALLAH jua..I was once told by someone that kalau kan membuat amal waqaf ada lebih afdal semasa kitani masih hidup dari sesudah kematian..kerana semasa hidup harta yang kitani waqafkan atu ada lah harta kitani..tapi selepas kematian kitani..harta atu sudah menjadi hak milik waris kitani..sebab atu tah kitani di galakan untuk memperbanyakan amalan sedekah semasa kitani masih hidup...

Di antara sifat-sifat Mazmumah

UNTUK RENUNGAN BERSAMA:

1. Syarrut ta‘am (banyak makan)

Iaitu terlampau banyak makan atau minum ataupun gelojoh ketika makan atau minum. Makan dan minum yang berlebih-lebihan itu menyebabkan seseorang itu malas dan lemah serta membawa kepada banyak tidur. Ini menyebabkan kita lalai daripada menunaikan ibadah dan zikrullah.Makan dan minum yang berlebih-lebihan adalah ditegah walaupun tidak membawa kepada lali daripada menunaikan ibadah kerana termasuk di dalam amalan membazir.

2. Syarrul kalam (banyak bercakap)

Iaitu banyak berkata-kata atau banyak bercakap. Banyak berkata-kata itu boleh membawa kepada banyak salah, dan banyak salah itu membawa kepada banyak dosa serta menyebabkan orang yang mendengar itu mudah merasa jemu.

3. Ghadhab (pemarah)

Ia bererti sifat pemarah, iaitu marah yang bukan pada menyeru kebaikan atau menegah daripada kejahatan.Sifat pemarah adalah senjata bagi menjaga hak dan kebenaran. Oleh kerana itu, seseorang yang tidak mempunyai sifat pemarah akan dizalimi dan akan dicerobohi hak-haknya.Sifat pemarah yang dicela ialah marah yang bukan pada tempatnya dan tidak dengan sesuatu sebab yang benar.

4. Hasad (dengki)

Iaitu menginginkan nikmat yang diperolehi oleh orang lain hilang atau berpindah kepadanya. Seseorang yang bersifat dengki tidak ingin melihat orang lain mendapat nikmat atau tidak ingin melihat orang lain menyerupai atau lebih daripadanya dalam sesuatu perkara yang baik. Orang yang bersifat demikian seolah-olah membangkang kepada Allah subhanahu wata‘ala kerana mengurniakan sesuatu nikmat kepada orang lain.Orang yang berperangai seperti itu juga sentiasa dalam keadaan berdukacita dan iri hati kepada orang lain yang akhirnya menimbulkan fitnah dan hasutan yang membawa kepada bencana dan kerosakan.

Congrats to Mizy..

hehe..congrats to my friend mijih aka mizy aka jijah..heheh..for starting a new job and wish you all the best in your new career..and femus lagi tu sampai keluar pic dalam today's BB..eseh ayu usul mu..hehehe..krg malam sain otograph eh..buleeh aa?

I terporgot

Rupa2 nya bulan Zulkeadah udah masa ani tanpa di sedari..I totally forgot my birthdate in Islamic Calendar in Zulkaedah..anyway doesn't matter its just another date, plus yang penting I'm still here, more determined than ever, more energetic, more wiser (I hope) but will always be down-to-earth no matter what happens...I'm so blessed with all I have now - my family and my friends, they are the love and charm of my life...dan aku bersyukur di atas limpah iman, rezeki, kesihatan serta ilmu yang di berikan dan datang dari ALLAH jua..syukur ALHAMDULLILLAH..and btw, did you all know that our age is older according to the Islamic Calender than the western calender?

Doing a double

It's such a good weather today..hot and sunny..after the Friday prayer I wanna get ready for the acara mandi belawat at my niece in Rimba when my mom told it's only gonna be attended by female invitees..woohooo..lagi baik mun ganya function atu yang kana jemput bini2 saja..so apa lagi I called my friends kan menasek at 315pm...as early as possible, who knows it might rain a bit later..so by 315pm everyone was at Tasek udah..5 org kami in all..we started slow but steady until at one point atu I hafta dgn kan one of my friend coz the rest atu laju d dapan..he puked twice along the way..and while otw jua I received a sms from my running mate kan membawa belusir di stadum at 5pm..hmmm..very tempting..half way upon reaching Bukit Sarang Helang, I ran all the way leaving everyone elses behind..rasa kan menyempati belusir di Stadium..hahaha..lapar kan belari..5 mins to 5pm, ku sampai di Stadium..changed my bukit shoes into my running shoes..and we did a 7.6km run tadi..its just a maintenance run since yesterday I did a 10km fartlek..I guessed I did a double today..and t'row its juz gonna be a swimming session..I call it shaping up exercise...

Like it never rained before

Its raining heavily masa ani...luckily I did not go out for lunch coz if not I would be stuck in the traffic jam..plus I left my payung at home..biasa nya ada dlm mutuka ku..anyway, lain saja ujan nya ani..mcm its gonna rain for a few hours and we all know what it means kalau ujan labat cemani ani..but I hope it will stop soon..coz kalau inda beranti how am I suppose to go for a run later at the stadium..I am so totally craving for a run..batah udah ku inda belusir and only yesterday we went menasek and it was really satisfying...siok bawa belari naik Bukit Sarang Helang atu, paluh pun limpar oleh nya..hehehe..and I'm going for another run di sana esok pagi coz patang I can't do any sports activities at all as my niece is having the Mandi Belawat thingy..rupanya ada masih function ani di Brunei..I tot inda lagi exist..hehehe..but I hope esok patang the weather will be good during the function..biar tia ujan sepuas puas nya masa ani..like it never rained before..

Trip of a lifetime..

I had a story story with my friend tadi as he mentioned about kan backpacking...its a worth backpacking trip and gerenti an experience of a lifetime...the earliest we can probably go is in June 2011 pasal nya next year 2010 is a busy year for us..so here goes our plan --- first stop would be Bangkok. From there on, we will travel by land to Vietnam via Cambodia..and of course singgah Angkor Wat in Cambodia..lapas dari Ho Chi Minh, we will travel to Hanoi in the north where we will climb the Fansipan Mountain..then from Hanoi we will take a flight to Guangzhou in China..from Guangzhou, we will travel to a nearby Guilin and then back to Guoangzhou..then from Guangzhou we will take aflight to ilocos Norte in the northern part of Philippines..dari sana we will travel by land to Manila and going further to the south to as far as Mindanao..we will do island hopping to reach Mindanao and then finally go to Sabah before going back to Brunei by land jua..we estimate to take a leave for 28 days and a budget of 5k or perhaps less..nama nya backpacking kan..ganya yang mahal nanti yatah ganya airfare atu..but probably we can get cheaper if online...we just plan out the route but once we get to the first point..baru tah memikirkan cemana kan go to the next point..baru backpacking nama nya..anyway, if anyone interested kan join, juz save some money and have a thought about it..the journey may be tiring and hard but I guarantee its gonna be a journey of a lifetime...I've been waiting for this lama udah sal selama ani nada dangan yang interested kan doing a long backpacking trip..

Di mana ni nah?

Got a shot in the arm

I just can't believe I'm still sick..I mean nda jua damam tapi its the sore throat that bothers me. Kalau siang kira ok lah kurang dikit but kalau malam kambuh ya balik. Anyway, its been a week today since I got it and finally I went to the clinic tadi pagi..and the doctor gave me a shot and some prescriptions..I hope at least within 24 hours ani baik eh once and for all..The doctor wanted to give me a day off today but I declined pasal nya bukan nya I cannot do my work or anything..its juz I have sore throat problem..but he advised me not to talk much..hehe..however, he told me if the problem persists, he asked me to have a further check at the hospital..yatah nada tu nah ke hospital RIPAS atu..hehehe..bukan nya apa, kalau kan ke sana atu usually takes at least half a day, which is just practically unacceptable to me...plus looking for a parking space is another problem...anyway, I just wanna feel better at least by this afternoon so that karang malam dapat libur..its weekend kali udah ah..hehehe...

The sunrise story

Malas ku story story long long..the picutres say it all...but I like the sunrise jumpshot..the sun has been stamped..beat that..hahaha..apakan..

Are you one of the robots?

I remember when our beloved King mentioned about the bosses being robots..well, up until now I still refer them as robots when I talk with my colleagues...hehe..below are the top ten negative and true attitudes of the robots regardless where they are stationed at;

1) They always think that they are always right

2) They always assume and believe in negative assumptions

3) They are always hypocrite and egoistic

4) They always place their self interest first

5) They can't accept No for an answer from their human subordinates

6) They are always mad at their human subordinates when the higher ranking robots are mad at them

7) They are always the classic ass kisser and backstab at each other to secure higher position.

8) They seldom smile and seldom appreciate their human subordinates

9) They always blame their human subordinates for anything

10) They always forget who they are before they became robots..hehe..

These attitudes will resulted in the following consequences to the robots;

1) Stress, stress and more stress

2) Ageing due to stress

3) Hair falling and eventually became bald and hair became grey due to ageing..hahaha..its true..

4) Stroke/heart attack due to stress and ageing

5) Discontent by their human subordinates

Feel free to add up or comment on the list above. Agree or disagree, its your call..innit...hehehe..

Lagu Untukmu ( Live )

The plus sign

Its always satisfying when we take things positively even though all the things that we faced or received are all negative...at least thats how I always taught myself when negative things are thrown at me..I always perceived them in a positive way..of course its a bit demoralizing sometimes but its just a temporary feeling..trust me...I used to not able to handle stress or even negativeness in my life..but now alhamdullilah I can handle them open mindedly and open heartedly and of course positively.. I believe I owe so much on my healthy lifestyles...coz I think being healthy physically brings out healthy, clear and superb mind as well as spiritually jua...beleive me its true.. it makes u smarter, cunning and creative than anyone else..and with such qualities, they beat negative things that are being thrown at..no matter what..so I guess I will never stop being physically active..I have gone further and I will always will..and this is what I'm gonna do - I'm gonna be 100 steps further than the others, who could die trying to measure up...hehe..so believe in the plus sign..

I missed you Tom

eh awu..lupa ku gtau kamu nama mini cooper ku ani si Tommy or Tom as in Tom and Jerry..hehehe..ingat kucing saja bernama kah...hehe..and I really missed Tom..Gauk usulnya c Tom ah and when I get back, I'm gonna re-install the lampu sukan..heheh..baru mcm the Kianggeh Job..esok2 berfacebook ni c Tom ani..

Sustainable side income

Have you guys ever thought of having side income and not just depend on the monthly salary to sustain our life? Most of us the new generations will not have the pension scheme...So I guess its up to ourselves how to sustain our life after the retirement age...The only thing to prepare for that is to find a source of side income..i.e do a business..Any plans or ideas of how to do it? how to start up? where to begin? Will it be a success or a failure? So many questions to be answered..but that is not the issue here..a good planning is important in this matter..there are still millions of opportunities to start up small and meduim businesses in Brunei..like me I have a plan which I want to share...its a long term plan...first thing first insya'allah I will construct just a decent house by early next year..and this house will be my long term assets and my economic sustainability engine..the reason being that the house to be built is at a frontage of a highway still in Bandar area..and secondly it will be a place where my small/medium business plan will start up..I just can't mention what sort of business that I will venture into..but its something that I believe has a target market and in demand for the next five years and in fact a long term one..and my target stable income or profit would be around at least 3k-4k monthly..since I don't have to pay for shop rental or anything..insya'allah the target could be reached..But for that I need a business licence right which I had applied a few years back but my application was purely denied butI still have plan B i.e use my dad's business licence...as simple as that..hahahaha...we have to be smart in everyhing...when one door is closed..there are always more doors of opportunities to be opened...be no afraid of failure because failure teaches us how to be successful..the only thing I fear is when we are at the top or successful, people around us will start to envy us and they will start to kill us in anyway they can...but in the end for me it doesn't matter..most importantly and what really matters is that we have good intentions and good heart..with those two qualities I can frankly say that I already have everything...

Negligency is like suicide

Oh yeah it is getting worse..my fever has affected my voice and I think with the current condition, I will be voiceless t'row..even as I spoke on the phone just now..my friends realized the difference in my voice.hehehe..I just didn't sound like me..for now, I just drink lots of H2O..supaya panas didalam badan kurang but the bad thing about it is that I'll be awake to pee later..and it looks like I'm gonna have to buy another bottled water at the nearby 7 eleven krg..kan abis stock..I don't wanna go to clinic jua.bukan nya apa its juz the normal fever..no big deal but I don't wanna neglect my health jua..my health is my life..its vital to me..b'coz nikmat kesihatan merupakan salah satu nikmat yang mesti kitani hargai dan syukuri..so my friends please do not neglect your health because if you do its suicide even though in the end we all are gonna die..in fact we all are dying pulang, only at different rates...

Hard kok cafe?

Hahaha..I was passing by a small street when I saw the above signage...mau jua kan sama mcm Hard Rock Cafe style atu..baik jua bukan Hard Cock..hahaha..but I think their intention cematu pulang tu, as long as ada sound cock atu and doesn't matter how it was spelt.hehe..but if you notice above the word kok...ada betulis Bang..hahah..whatever..